Wednesday, November 23, 2005
Wife or Mother
When does the woman you marry become her mother ? One of my boy called me the other day, crying about how he is going to leave his wife. I know it is not proper to get in grown folks business but I had to know why. Was she having an affair ? Did she pull a Maury Povish and tell you that one of the kids may not be yours. What was it. After pulling out his teeth to get him to talk. He goes "she has turned into her mother". I asked what does that mean. He goes on to say she is dressing like her mother, looking more like her mother (gray hair, clothes she wear, gray coochie, etc) everyday. He say that he can't sleep with her anymore because he is not turned on. Everytime he looks at her he see his mother in law. What about when she has no clothes on. He explains thats worse, because all he can think about is that he is about to do it to his Mother in Law. All I could do is laugh and ask what did he expect. He said he expected his wife to look like the woman he married not his wife's mother. I tell him don't leave because as he get older I'm sure he will look more like his father.
// posted by twin @ 12:29 AM 
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Dang, your boy is being a bit harsh. Sounds like he didn't have realistic expectations to begin with when he married.
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Have a Happy Thanksgiving!
I don't know your friend, but advise him to take a look in the mirror before he does something drastic...It's usually the ones who look wretched, but won't face up to it, so they focus the attention on the next best thing...BASTARD!!!!!
*lol* @ Chubby Chocolate's comments. @Twin: Your friend may not be happy about his wife's appearance, but there may come a day when he can't perform anymore and women will dropkick him the same way. So he better stay with his woman, because his day will come. *tisk* *tisk* *tisk*
you gave him great advice, twin. your friend is being a bit shallow. it's almost like he's looking for any little reason to leave his wife.
good to see you were the voice of reason.
good to see you were the voice of reason.
see, this is why i don't deal with men. :-) just kidding.
but he should really think about the beauty his wife had before he married her. if he doesn't like the way she looks now, why doesn't he just treat her to a spa day and treat her to a makeover and a shopping spree?
i'm with livingsingle, he didn't realize what marriage is really about. he obviously wasn't planning to grow old with her.
they need some counseling.
but he should really think about the beauty his wife had before he married her. if he doesn't like the way she looks now, why doesn't he just treat her to a spa day and treat her to a makeover and a shopping spree?
i'm with livingsingle, he didn't realize what marriage is really about. he obviously wasn't planning to grow old with her.
they need some counseling.
Twin... Oldboy is a bit shallow...
I've heard old folks say "If you want to know how your wife will be in a few years...just look at her mother".
Did your friend expect time to stand still, and his wife not change? Like I said... shallow.
I've heard old folks say "If you want to know how your wife will be in a few years...just look at her mother".
Did your friend expect time to stand still, and his wife not change? Like I said... shallow.
I guess he thought folks wouldn't age...I bet she is thinking the same about him...he needs to set an example and together they can work on becoming healthier. I'm sure he probably has a big ole' potbelly himself...
Wow. Your friend is fucked-up but typically male in his STANK-ASS uncaring attitude towards women. Women NOR men keep looking like they are 20, 20 years later. Period.
But it's just that old FUCKED UP double standard that goes something like this:
"Women get older, men get distinguished"
What the fuck ever. I'm with Insane and Chubby. He better turn hsi OWN ass over and look at his grey nut-hairs before he goes throwing stones of stupidity around! And if she bears a strong resemblence to her mother, what did he THINK she'd look like???? HIS daddy??? I mean really!! If he is truly not turned on because of that he needs to visit a psychatrist.
NOBODY stays the same and I'm sure he ain't the "tightest" one in the bunch either!
Sorry for the long diatribe, but I HATE muthafucka's like him!
*stomping off.....grumbling*
But it's just that old FUCKED UP double standard that goes something like this:
"Women get older, men get distinguished"
What the fuck ever. I'm with Insane and Chubby. He better turn hsi OWN ass over and look at his grey nut-hairs before he goes throwing stones of stupidity around! And if she bears a strong resemblence to her mother, what did he THINK she'd look like???? HIS daddy??? I mean really!! If he is truly not turned on because of that he needs to visit a psychatrist.
NOBODY stays the same and I'm sure he ain't the "tightest" one in the bunch either!
Sorry for the long diatribe, but I HATE muthafucka's like him!
*stomping off.....grumbling*
Twin, I have to echo what most everyone else here had to say. I mean damn, does he love her or what? Why is he being so shallow? Lastly, what da hell does HE LOOK LIKE? I mean really!
If he loved her, that shit wouldn't matter.
If he loved her, that shit wouldn't matter.
Tell that nigga congratulations on a well thought out decision. Leave while the getting is good. The standard that lets him leave while her looks fade is the same thing that gets broads in the club free before 11 pm!
*doing the double standard dance*
KZ
*doing the double standard dance*
KZ
i agree w/ everyone...u should tell your homie that at least she doesn't look like his father n law...now that would be scary
She is probably aging so fast because of him stressing her out with all that foolishness. Heck, he might be doing her a favor by leaving her. He doesn't want her anymore than be gone. No one needs all that nonsense and negative energy. I second CC's question...is that Jayne Kennedy in both photos?
"Wife or Mother"
Please suggest to your friend to talk to his wife about his concerns. If he feels that he can not talk with his wife suggest that he give her a make over day at a Spa.
Please suggest to your friend to talk to his wife about his concerns. If he feels that he can not talk with his wife suggest that he give her a make over day at a Spa.
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See? I'm all flattered that you linked me. I was like "who da hell is 'soldier girl'?"
Anywho, your boy isn't being very realistic, like most people have stated out here. It would've helped if he saw her moms before he got married, and realized that she too could look and carry on the same. I'm assuming he still looks the same as the day they were married, yes?
I'm tripping off Jayne Kennedy-Overton tho. I tried to google her pic for one of my blog entries... that one sure as hell didn't pop up. Have Mussay on da Gul. Lawd Jeezus!
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Anywho, your boy isn't being very realistic, like most people have stated out here. It would've helped if he saw her moms before he got married, and realized that she too could look and carry on the same. I'm assuming he still looks the same as the day they were married, yes?
I'm tripping off Jayne Kennedy-Overton tho. I tried to google her pic for one of my blog entries... that one sure as hell didn't pop up. Have Mussay on da Gul. Lawd Jeezus!
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